A Woman's World

So speaking for myself, apologizing is a hard thing to do, especially when you feel the person you’re apologizing to owes you an apology as well, and you haven’t received one yet.  But KNOW THIS… when it’s all said and done, it’s not about you.  After doing some research on the internet, I came across a book by Beverly Engel called The Power of Apology.  In the book, I saw a quote that fit well to what I’m about to say.  She stated, “Some people may see apologizing as a pride thing—a sign of weakness.  They think it will hurt them in some way, but if you don’t acknowledge the offense, it can be insulting for the other person.”  Remember that even though you may not agree with the fact that you are apologizing, apologies are healing.  They give each person the opportunity to forgive and it will help mend the relationship. 

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